Yesterday was Chinese New Year. It is the year of the pig. Unfortunately I have no pig photos for you. I even know a pig. His name is Winston. Winston apparently likes his belly scratched, but he is also a bit wary of strangers, so I have yet to experience the pleasure of scratching his rather large belly. The last time I saw Winston, his mama had put him on a diet and Winston was not a happy pig.
However, it is said that most pigs are happy, as well as good tempered, kind hearted, positive and loyal. And prosperous. I guess that accounts for Winston needing to go on a diet. He has an abundance of food!
If you are wondering whether this is going to just be a rambling about pigs, not to worry. I’ve got a point; two actually. It’s just taking me a while to get there. First point: You get a do-over. It is New Year’s all over again. How are you doing on those resolutions which never work? Take the do-over. Or did you take my advice and set intentions instead of resolutions?
Either way, you get a do over. Thank the Chinese for it.
The other point of my post is the prosperity piece. Pigs are a symbol of prosperity. Now, I did a bit of research, as I like to do, and discovered that this prosperity thing only applies under certain conditions. If if you were born in a year of the pig, watch out. Apparently, not so much prosperity coming for you. What are those years you say? According to Wikipedia, they are: 1947, 2031, 1995, 1971, 1923, 1935, 2007, 2019, 1983, 1959. Don’t ask about the 2031. I have no clue.
But here’s the thing. I’m a Science of Mind New Thought kind of person. This means I believe in the power of thought and the Law of Attraction. This means that if we set an intention for prosperity, then prosperity we shall have. Of course, there is a lot of other stuff that goes into that, but I’m just going to leave that right here for you.
Today, you get a do-over on New Years, and you can rely on the pig. Go for it. Prosperity.
I am a huge believer in the Law of Attraction. This Law says basicallly that we attract what we put out there. Like other Laws, this Law is no respecter of what we do, or what color we are, or any other outside appearances. It doesn't say we attract what we wish for, or even what we affirm. What it really does is bring to us in accordance with our beliefs. And expectations, like thoughts and feelings and emotions, are very much based in our beliefs.
Some like to say that expectations are premeditated resentments. Those who subscribe to this tend to lower their expectations so they don't get upset about things. ...continue reading "Expectations are NOT premeditated resentments!"
I've been doing a lot of thinking lately on how the basic laws of life work. You may have heard about one of those laws: it's called the Law of Attraction. Almost every spiritual, scientific, philosophical and psychological discipline throughout the ages has either proven or spoken of this law.
It is powerful, and it works. It works even if you don't believe in it, because it will simply honor your intention of disbelief and not work. ...continue reading "Three steps to activate the Law of Attraction in your life"
Being a grump really doesn't feel very good, nor does it serve us very well. There is a reason for that age old saying, "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar."
Setting aside, for the moment, the question of why one would want to catch flies anyway, let's examine this concept a bit.
First of all, we all know that what we embody, what we be, what we do, what we put out there.....is what we attract. Right? If you don't know this, or don't believe it, try an experiment. Go to the grocery store and be rude. Steal a parking place, don't make way in the aisles, take cuts at the check out line, and whatever you do.....don't smile at anyone. Check out how that feels, and check out how people reacted to you.
Now go back in the store. Smile and make eye contact at everyone you encounter. Help a short person reach the item on the top shelf. Let the person behind you in the check out line with just a couple of items go in front of you. Check out how that feels, and check out how people reacted to you.
If that isn't enough to prove the concept, do your research. Don't just check out Law of Attraction sites, which can admittedly be biased. Check out some quantum physics. Check out the "observer effect."
It really is true, we attract what we put out there. In terms of feeling grumpy, simply smiling could change all that.
If you did the experiment above, you've already seen that smiling will completely change the way people act towards you.
Now try this:
Smile. All the time. Even if you don't feel like it. People will wonder what you are up to. And I guarantee it will make you feel better.
And try counting how many smiles you see in a set period of time. Go ahead, count those smiles! For an hour a day. Write down how many you get. Do this every day for a week.
Then see how you feel.
It's true: we can change our feelings by smiling. It's a behavior modification technique that is simple, easy to do, and very effective.