I don't know why I'm always somewhat amazed when it happens....again.
Maybe your mind works like mine does. I get these inner shifts in my thinking, these inner awarenesses that are different. They constitute inner rearrangements in how I perceive life, and result in differences in the way I react to life. The amazement comes because while it takes me time to be able to voice what is occurring, I will always find in my studies an author who so eloquently speaks what I am feeling and experiencing. This time around it is Parker J. Palmer, in his book "Let Your Life Speak."
It is both heartwarming, because I learn that I am not alone, and encouraging, because I realize I'm on the right track.
In the quote he is speaking to not looking backward and attempting to fix or control or somehow undo it when a door has shut, but instead to look forward to the opportunities inherent in such a situation.
In the last few years I've experienced a number of doors closing. And some part of me knew that while it was important to properly grieve the losses (and I have) another also part knew that when the time was right, the openings and new opportunities would come. I also knew I had some work to do, and I've done the work. And new opportunities are beginning to present themselves.
If you have had a door (or doors) close, take heart. I know it isn't pleasant right now, in this in-between place I call the hallway. And there is work to be done for sure. Inner work, and most likely some grieving. Do not attempt to deny or bypass this work or the grieving. That will simply ensure that you stay stuck. Do the work and I promise you the new life that presents itself will be amazing.